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Camellia, Poem and A Literary Salon

I forgot to take a photo of the posy we picked for our visit to Ti today, forget-me-nots with a sprig of choisya, but I did get a photo of one of the camellias in the garden of her home.

One of the poems we read today, just the first verse,  was a favourite of my Mum’s, Afterwards by Thomas Hardy. Mum, too, ‘used to notice such things.’

When the Present has latched its postern behind my tremulous stay,
And the May month flaps its glad green leaves like wings,
Delicate-filmed as new-spun silk, will the neighbours say,
“He was a man who used to notice such things?”

 

This evening we have been to the opening evening of Redruth’s Book Feast, a delightful Literary Salon  with two wonderful women. We now have the whole weekend ok book stuff to look forward to.

Shazz Andrew and Rebecca Morden

 

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Posy, Washing and A Dinner

I took a little posy next door for Sue today, Rosemary for remembrance and primroses as they were a favourite of our lovely neighbour Bill Mitchell, who died on this day seven years ago. You can read more in a post I wrote about this very special man here.

It’s been a beautiful, bright and breezy day today and for the first time in months we’ve been able to dry the washing outside. It smells so fresh and lovely.

Table napkins bought in Egypt many years ago and full of memories of a brilliant family holiday on a Nile Cruise.

We’ve been next door this evening with Sue and family to have a dinner in honour of Bill, steak and kidney pie to start and then a Lemon self saucing pudding. Regular readers may remember that in his last couple of months Bill really fancied puddings and I used to make them for him – lemon pud and syrup sponge being favourites.  We ate the pud all up before I thought to take a photo. I got one of the delicious pie though!

 

Potting On, Paella and A Poem

So much potting on today that a whole team of us were working  on many baby plants including cucumbers, okra and cosmos. The tomato plants sown only a few weeks ago were being planted out into a poly tunnel.

More very heavy rain

Our lunch today was the most delicious paella made by one of the volunteers – such a delicious and warming meal after a hard working morning.

I saw the following poem on Facebook and loved it so I wrote to the poet, Caroline Mellor, and she very kindly sent it to me to post here. It is printed in her book, “The Honey in the Bones.’  This poem links so well with the song I posted a couple of days ago which can be found here.

We Need to Teach the Children the Old Words
“Words are world-makers”
– Robert MacFarlane
We need to teach the children the old words,
words like brabble and grubble,
twitter-light and clinkerbell;
words which dance and trip and slip
and drip like honey off the tongue
Teach them that a hazy halo of cloud
around the moon is called a moonbroch
and that swiftly moving clouds are named cairies;
how a vixen’s wedding is a sunny shower of rain,
and that a single sunbeam breaking through thick cloud
is known as a messenger
Teach them to know the seasons and scents
of queen of the meadow and bride of the sun,
how to tell Jupiter’s staff from fairy fingers
and which roses bloom with the strawberry moon
Teach them to spot pricklebacks in the tottlegrass,
how to recognise a smeuse or a bishop-barnaby,
when to watch the sky for flittermice and yaffles,
and to pay attention to the dumbledore and mousearnickle
as she graces the lazy leahs of summer
Teach them a few of the old Sussex words for mud,
like gubber and slub and stodge and pug,
so they know that the precious soil beneath their toes
is anything but worthless dirt
Teach them to be users and keepers and makers
of the words which bring the land alive:
a storybook, where everything has its rightful place,
including us;
where the wilds are fearful and filled with magic
and people do noble things, and nothing is impossible
In this world of harsh new words –
words like planetary dysmorphia and solastalgia,
extinction debt and grief mitigation,
megadrought and megafire,
anthropogenic, pyrocene,
words which alarm and get stuck in our throats
describing a world which our hearts cannot grasp –
we need to teach the children the old words,
so that if they should feel lost,
the old words might colour for them
a warm and breathing, living map,
a light to guide them safely home.
 

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A Posy and A Poem

We managed to find a small posy to take to our dear friend this afternoon.

We spent a happy hour chatting and sharing poems and this is one that set us talking, especially the middle verse.

 

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Dialect Words, Lilies and Tulips

Among the many books I inherited from my Dad is a delightful book about the various dialects in England, “Word Maps A Dialect Atlas of England”. I turned to this after one of my followers commented about an obsolete word I had shared, quanked, saying that in the North East, the word jiggered is used to express extreme weariness.
I was hoping to find other dialect words for tiredness but, sadly, not in this collection. I have, however, marked several pages to share with you at some point. Today, it is a variety of words to name a female cat. My favourite is Betty Cat. It would be interesting to know if any of these are still in use. I haven’t ever heard ‘ewe’ used for a female cat in Cornwall but that doesn’t mean it isn’t used. The book was published in 1987……

The lilies in the beautiful bouquet sent last weekend by Daughter no 2 for Mothers’ Day, have opened today and are glorious.

February was unusually warm as well as wet and our tulips opened a month early. They are now nearly over and looking rather blousy and lovely.

After a lovely morning having breakfast out with friends, I have spent much of the afternoon on the embroidery project that I mentioned a few weeks ago. It is nearly ready to show you……

 

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Flowers and A New Word

Some lovely flowers were brought for me yesterday and today they are opening up their buds to beautiful blooms.

Thank you N&G xx

I love this word that came my way recently. There are more to come!

 
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Posted by on March 9, 2024 in friendship, Kindness, Postaday 2024

 

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International Women’s Day

The following are from my post for International Women’s Day 2021 with notes from today.

I have today as on each March 8th taken a little posy to our friend next door for her wedding anniversary and in memory of her lovely husband.

Toady, the Guardian has devoted their letters page to all women correspondents. This was my letter in 2021.

And, as ever, a call out to all the women in my life, to my daughters and LiveWires, to my friends both in person and my blogging pals and to those who help to make my life better – love to you all.

 

A View, Violas and SallyBoots

I’m enjoying the view from our side kitchen window, the bright Spring flower view we get when washing up.

We visited a garden centre yesterday in a brief gap between showers. The suffragette colours caught my eye.

Many of you, Dear Readers know of our lovely friend Ti, 104 years old, whom we visit regularly. This week, her first Great Grandchild has arrived and I have made him a pair of SallyBoots. I have used the same two yarns that I used to mend Ti’s cardigan last week so the little fellow and his Great Granny will have matching clothing!

SallyBoots

 

Darning, Posy and Poems

Last time we visited our Dear Friend Ti, she asked if I could try to mend her beautiful Norwegian cardigan which had worn through into a big hole on the sleeve. I said I would give it a go and we returned it today, all done. I darned the hole in the conventional manner and then added the decoration with some Swiss darning. I learned both skills from my Granny very many years ago!

We try to take a garden posy on each visit and today were able to make up a pretty little bunch.

We always enjoy reading poems when we visit and are always delighted when, as I start to read, Ti joins in with the next couple of lines.

The Fairies by William Allingham b1824

Up the airy mountain,
Down the rushy glen,
We daren’t go a-hunting
For fear of little men;
Wee folk, good folk,
Trooping all together;
Green jacket, red cap,
And white owl’s feather!

Down along the rocky shore
Some make their home,
They live on crispy pancakes
Of yellow tide-foam;
Some in the reeds
Of the black mountain-lake,
With frogs for their watchdogs,
All night awake.

High on the hill-top
The old King sits;
He is now so old and grey
He’s nigh lost his wits.
With a bridge of white mist
Columbkill he crosses,
On his stately journeys
From Slieveleague to Rosses;
Or going up with music
On cold starry nights,
To sup with the Queen
Of the gay Northern Lights.

They stole little Bridget
For seven years long;
When she came down again
Her friends were all gone.
They took her lightly back,
Between the night and morrow,
They thought that she was fast asleep,
But she was dead with sorrow.
They have kept her ever since
Deep within the lake,
On a bed of flag-leaves,
Watching till she wake.

By the craggy hillside,
Through the mosses bare,
They have planted thorn trees
For pleasure, here and there.
Is any man so daring
As dig them up in spite,
He shall find their sharpest thorns
In his bed at night.

Up the airy mountain,
Down the rushy glen,
We daren’t go a-hunting
For fear of little men;
Wee folk, good folk,
Trooping all together;
Green jacket, red cap,
And white owl’s feather!

 

Another delightful poem today, that neither of us knew, was also one that Ti could join in on. It’s by Richard Monckton Milnes, Lord Houghton

Good Night and Good Morning

A fair little girl sat under a tree,
     Sewing as long as her eyes could see;
Then smoothed her work and folded it right,
     And said, “Dear work, good night, good night!”

Such a number of rooks came over her head,
     Crying “Caw, caw!” on their way to bed.
She said, as she watched their curious flight,
      “Little black things, good night, good night!”

The horses neighed, and the oxen lowed,
     The sheep’s “bleat, bleat!” came over the road;
All seeming to say, with a quiet delight,
      “Good little girl, good night, good night!”

She did not say to the sun, “Good night!”
     Though she saw him there like a ball of light,
For she knew he had God’s time to keep
     All over the world, and never could sleep.

The tall pink foxglove bowed his head;
     The violets curtsied and went to bed;
And good little Lucy tied up her hair,
     And said, on her knees, her favorite prayer.

And while on her pillow she softly lay,
     She knew nothing more till again it was day;
And all things said to the beautiful sun,
      “Good morning, good morning! our work is begun.”

by Lord Houghton

 

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A Posy and A Poem

We took our first three daffodils as a posy for our dear friend today and she loved them.

We always enjoys poetry together, ‘Warning’ by Jenny Joseph, ‘The Path Less Travelled’ by Robert Frost , ‘The Owl and the Pussycat’ by Edward Lear and others that raise smiles of recognition and discussion of rhyme, rhythm and the scene conjured up.  This one, ”Silver’ by Walter de la Mare, was new to us and we all enjoyed it. At the time of an almost full moon, the slivery effect on the garden is gorgeous and captured perfectly here..

Silver 

Slowly, silently, now the moon
Walks the night in her silver shoon;
This way, and that, she peers, and sees
Silver fruit upon silver trees;
One by one the casements catch
Her beams beneath the silvery thatch;
Couched in his kennel, like a log,
With paws of silver sleeps the dog;
From their shadowy cote the white breasts peep
Of doves in silver feathered sleep
A harvest mouse goes scampering by,
With silver claws, and silver eye;
And moveless fish in the water gleam,
By silver reeds in a silver stream. 

 

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